Fetish

A fetish or paraphilia involving any sexual fantasy or activity that would provoke consternation on the part of someone who doesn't happen to share your interest in it. An alternative definition: anything someone does in bed, or during sex, or in their fantasies, that is kinkier than what you do.

A fetish is typically focused on an inanimate object, or something that does not normally have a sexual connotation. But, used loosely (and what could be looser than the sexual underground?), a fetish could mean any sexual fascination or fixation that is outside the norm -- whatever the hell that is.

What is you Fetish?

Perhaps the most common fetishes involve lingerie, voyeurism, exhibitionism (thanks for helping us out, VW), BDSM and spanking.

Having a fetish does not mean that you are sick. Everybody has this or the other fetish. In fact, researchers have found that many, if not most, people have fairly bizarre fantasies while masturbating. The question is, how much that fetish influences your daily life and your sexual habits.

Example 1: You have your vacations at Hedonism. In your hotel room is a mirror right above your bed. You notice during sex that you are more aroused than normal when watching you and your partner in that mirror. That is perfectly fine and you do not have to worry about Katoptronophilia. Back home, you decide to place permanent mirrors over your bed. Now it becomes a little bit kinky. Two months later you notice that you cannot enjoy an orgasm without watching yourself in a mirror. Now you have to worry about Katoptronophilia.

Example 2: You are a male. You notice that sex is more fun when she wears panties. That is perfectly fine and you do not have to worry about a panty fetish. Then you notice, that you do not get an erection if she does not wear panties in bed. Now it starts getting critical. Later on you start ejaculating into her used or freshly washed panties - you do not need your girl any longer. Now you are obsessed and kind of sick!

Oh yeah, by the way, see also Extreme fetish.

Alphabetical List of known and illustrated Fetishes and Paraphilias

Important Remark from Igor: If you add a new fetish, please use the common english word and not the medical latin term for the article. People dont search for "Altocalciphilia" if they love high heels...thanks!

• Andromimetophilia: Love of women dressed as men

• Armpit fetish: To be attracted by her armpits

• Arched foot fetish: To be sexually attracted by arched feet wearing very high high heels.

• Balloon Fetish: To be sexually aroused by women handling balloons

• Blindfold fetish (Amaurophilia: Sexual arousal by a partner who is blindfolded

• Boots fetish: To be sexually aroused by women wearing boots

• BDSM, or Bondage/Submission & Sadomasochism: A No No at VW - pictures related to this are not featured. Algolagnia, is the technical term for sexual pleasure from pain.

• Bike Fetish: Sexual attraction from persons riding a bicycle.

• Breast fetish: Focused sexual attraction on titties.

• Crossdresser: A man enjoying being dressed in her clothes.

• Costume fetish: Focused on special dressing like for example French maid

• Cum in panties: He jizzes into her panties

• Cum in shoes: He jizzes into her shoes

• Cum on her pic: He cums onto a photo

• Cum on purse: He jizzes into or onto her purse

• Cum in pantyhose: He jizzes into her pantyhoses

• Cum in bra: He jizzes into her bras

• Cum on toothbrush: He jizzes onto her toothbrush

• Cum on hairbrush: He jizzes onto her hairbrush

• Cum on lipstick: He jizzes onto her lipsticks

• Cum on iphone: He jizzes onto her iphone

• Dacryphilia: Sexual pleasure in eliciting tears from others or oneself

• Diaper fetishism: Sexual arousal from diapers

• Eproctophilia: Slatulence fetish (sorry no picture for this one!). See also scat.

• Exhibitionism: See VW

• Fishnets fetish: Sexual arousal from fishnet clothes - mainly stockings and pantyhose

• Foot fetish (Podophilia), a general foot fetish, no matter whether her foot is dressed or not.

• Foot sole fetish (Aretifism): sexual attraction to people who are without footwear, in contrast to the shoe fetish

• Frotteurism: sexual arousal from the recurrent urge or behavior of touching or rubbing against a non-consenting person

• Gerontophilia: Sexual attraction towards the elderly

• High heels fetish (Altocalciphilia): Being obsessed by high heels.

• Incest: Sexual arousal from fantasies involving family members having sex with each other

• Mirror fetish (Katoptronophilia): Sexual arousal from having sex in front of so-called sex mirrors.

• Lactation fetish: To be aroused by milk out of her lactating tits

• Selflicking fetish: To lick her own nipples

• Latex fetish: To be sexually aroused by latex

• Lipstick fetish: To be aroused by women putting lipstick on their lips.

• Marking territory: A common party fetish game

• Nasophilia: The nose fetish

• Nylon fetish: An extreme pantyhose fetish

• Panty fetish: To be obsessed by worn or empty panties

• Pantyhose fetish: To be obsessed by worn or empty pantyhoses

• Pedophilia: Sexual attraction to underage persons - A No No at VW - pictures related to this are not accepted.

• Pictophilia: Sexual attraction to pictorial pornography/erotic art/cartoons

• Piss fetish: see Urolagnia here below

• Pubic hair fetish (Pubephilia): To be obsessed by pubic hair

• Public wanking: A man stroking his cock in public

• Sadism: Sexual arousal from giving pain

• Sadomasochism: Sexual arousal from giving or receiving pain

• Scat, also known as Coprophilia: sexual attraction to shit and/or shitting

• Somnophilia: Sexual arousal from sleeping or unconscious people

• Sharking: A kind of sexual prank against women of all kind exposing their genitals in public and more

• Shaved genital fetish (Acomoclitic): To love shaved pussy and penis.

• Shoe fetish (Retifism): sexual arousal from women's shoes, usually high heels.

• Spanking fetish: Most would probably consider this a subset of BDSM

• Stocking fetish: Sexual arousal from stockings - has different forms

• Submissive sexual behavior: To enjoy being dominated

• Sweater fetish: Sexual arousal from people wearing sweaters

• Toe fetish: To be obsessed by toes

• Uniform fetish: : sexual arousal from people wearing uniforms

• Urolagnia: sexual attraction to urine and/or urination

• Used panties fetish: sexual arousal by used panties

• Vincilagnia: sexual arousal by bondage

• Voyeurism: see VW

• Wet and Messy: sexual arousal with wet or messy substances